I’ve known the kid since 5th grade and consider him a brother to me (im an only child so this relationship is pretty important).
He is a catholic-by-name turned atheist who has made some questionable life decisions (as we all have, no doubt, I’m just worried for him). Please pray that the Holy Spirit finds him and he in converted.
Also our friendship is in great danger. I have an ex-fiancee that I had been dating for 3+ years. She has changed dramatically in the last couple of years into a selfish, manipulative person. We broke up because she wouldn’t budge on the issue of working for planned parenthood. Well since easter we’d been trying to talk again and work things out. 2 weeks ago i went out to dinner with her and thought things went well. The next night I had to leave to go back to my university but my friend stayed behind (he’s also my roommate). He went to her party and started talking to her. She didn’t answer her phone for the next 2 days and then on the 3rd said she didn’t feel anything for me, which obviously devastated me.
Fast forward to last thursday and I find out that they have been talking on a daily basis. I expressed my anger at this and he agreed to end it. Then I find out yesterday that not only is it not ended, but he saw her again on the weekend and has been talking to her on a daily basis again. Not only that but everything was behind my back and I had to hear it from other people/do my own investigating.
I just feel very very hurt and betrayed by this and feel that it might be hard to ever forgive him. The guy is supposedly my best friend and now it will be hard to ever trust him again, even if he does end the relationship for our friendship.
So again, i ask you to pray for his conversion/soul and for our friendship to mend.