Hi,, Trishie, I've been trying to send you this mesage, will try again
My son is 29 and my daughter is 24. He really does not have any time for his family., in fact I think he's ashamed to acknowledge as his family. He promised to sponsor his father and me, so that we could and make our home with him in Australia, (in fact, I'm visiting him right now) but he does not seem to be willing to do anything to process our papers, in fact, he'e hardly ever around even though I've come here to visit from a distant country, all his does is promises, but he does not follow upon his promises, this is why my kids fight. My daughter does not like him to make empty promises to us as his parents, he needs to be up front and tell us whether he wants us in his life or not. It is very heartbreaking for me to realise that he may not want us with him after all. His sister does not live with him, she used to, but he started making her so miserable that she moved out and now she's happier. I'm just praying that God will strengthen the bond between them, next month, by this time I will be back in to where I came from, and this makes me sad, because I know that I WILL NEVER GET THE CHANCE TO VISIT MY KIDS AGAIN! I may NEVER SEE THEM AGAIN! which is why I was hoping that this visit of mine would be filled with happy memories for me to remember in my heart, but it's not!:
Thank you for your thoughtfulness and kindness.
May God bless you.