I am an engaged grad student (male) temporarily living with another guy from school. He is not Catholic, but we generally get along despite our differences.
Anyway, to cut to the chase, today I found pornography in his room when I was borrowing his radio. It wasn’t hidden. It was actually stacked beside the radio. Well, I threw it out with the trash…literally!
I wasn’t snooping around for it. I am even willing to give him the few DVDs that I own in order to make-up for the monetary loss (which was actually lost when the smut was purchased). The bottom line is: I didn’t want that stuff in our apartment and I’m not certain that he would have thrown it away on his own accord had we spoken about it, so I took matters into my own hands.I’m not looking for a pat on the back…just advice. He will eventually notice it isn’t there or I’ll just bring it up. Either way it will get addressed.
Thanks and God bless