My boyfriend and I have been dating for a decent amount of time (about a year and a half) and we both think there is the possibility of marrying one day, but there is something that came up the other day that bothered me to the point where I am rethinking everything.
He was visiting his family for the holidays and was asked to go “hang-out” by an old female friend he has known since high school. One I have started noticing that calls him frequently whenever a college break is near. She simply wants to “hang-out” but I suspect there is something there. The two were planning to go see a movie a few nights ago, just the two of them and this really bothered me. I mean isn’t that a date? I realize the two are friends and have a developed type of relationship that involved the two spending a great deal of time together BUT that was before I was in the picture. I hadn’t paid attention to their hanging out much before mostly because I didnt ever pay attention to who was calling him but am intimidated now that I am noticing her calling and persistance to hanging out with him. The only reason Iknow about this incident is because he was in a way asking me for permission. I told him to do what he wants, but was very upset.
I want to know if I am over-reacting but it is something he is doing that I never would consider doing. Am I too traditional on how I think about this matter? I consider myself seriously with him but now doubt if he thinks the same…
I hope i explained things decently clear enough without writing a novel!
Peace be with you all,
Regis University Student