As her godfather and uncle, I have tried unsuccessfully to persuade her to reconsider. She is marrying this October, so it’s not an impossibility. However, instead, she is opting for a designer wedding in the Wine Country of California.
She also has asked me to not come because she feels that I am rude to her instead of seriously concerned as her godfather for her spiritual health which I truly am. She is also marrying someone of the Abrahamic faith, not Christian faith.