Prayer for Seeking a Marriage Mate


Lord, You said that it is not good for us to be alone. You made us for each other. But Lord, I find it so hard to find that mate who would be a good spouse. Help me, Lord, to put this yearning for marriage in its proper place.

Lead me, Lord, to the one whom You choose for my spouse. While I wait for You to reveal Your Will in this matter, help me to know myself better. Help me to address those areas of my life which are disordered and which would interfere with my having a successful marriage. When my desire to find a spouse becomes all consuming, help me to relax and practice patience. Help me to invest in wholesome friendships which bring me closer to You and which will assist me in making such an important decision. It is so natural, Lord, to seek love.

Teach me to seek You first and to learn to give love before I try to receive it. Help me to remember that whatever journey this life leads me on, You are always present, always offering companionship, and always filling my deepest need. I offer You, Lord, my loneliness and my longing for marriage. I wait for You to lead me to Your perfect Will for me in this and all things. Amen.


I don’t know if you wrote this yourself or not, but I think it it is so beautifully eloquent! I hope you don’t mind if I pass it along to an unmarried friend of mine, she will really like it. Thanks for posting it. :slight_smile:


Beautiful!! Simply Beautiful. With echoes of St Francis’s Prayer for Peace as well which I believe should be at the top of every married couple’s (or everyone’s - for that matter) prayer list.

Here is a link to Sinead O’Connors beautiful version of this prayer.


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