prayers for reconciliation

Hello all.

I was engaged to a man. we ended our relationship two months ago.
During this process, I have been humbled and have/continue to work on myself. Thanks to the help of God, and my spiritual advisor, I know that I must apologize to my ex for my wrong doings. I wrongly edified to my ex during our relationship. He is a cradle Catholic but was raised in a secular home. He was open to coming to the church but that wasn’t good enough for me…I wanted him to be a Knight of Columbus, etc etc. Although it was done with the best of intentions, I scared him off.
I have asked for forgiveness from my God, church and now I must tell him how very sorry I am. He has started to contact me.
Although I would love for us to have another opportunity, I need to leave that to God.
We are supposed to meet after he returns from his training and vacation.
If you can please join me in prayer that we meet and that I have the opportunity to look him in the eyes and ask for forgiveness.
That God be at our meeting and grace us with an open heart and I selfishly hope, forgiveness.
I also want to ask for openness to US but again, That will be God’s loving will. I want what God wants. But I do pray for that too…I can’t help it. I love him.
Please pray for me.

Ave Maria, Gratia plena
Dominus tecum,
Benedicta to in mulieribus,
Et benedictus, fructus, ventris tui Jesus

Sancta Maria, Mater Dei,
Ora pro nobis, pecatoribus nunc,
Et in hora mortis nostrae.


Oh My Jesus, Forgive us our sins,
Save us from the fires Hell,
And lead all souls to Heaven,
Especially those in most need of they mercy,

We turn to our Saints in Heaven for intercessory prayer. For all of us, but especially for the intentions of the petitioner in this thread, LewisJoan

St. Valentine, pray for us
Our Lady of Guadalupe, pray for us
St. Joseph, Husband of Mary, pray for us
St. Francis of Assisi, pray for us
Venerable Archbishop Fulton Sheen, Pray for us.
St. John Paul II pray for us
St. John XXIII pray for us
St. Michael the Archangel, pray for us.

Praying for God’s will to be.

Praying for your intention.

Relax! If you really love him you mustn’t try to change him. Apart from being futile, it could drive him away. Try to keep things light for a while. Enjoy being together and if it is God’s will that the relationship will grow - it will.

God bless you

Saint Michael, the archangel, defend us in battle, be our defense against the wickedness and snares of the devil, may God rebuke him, we humbly pray. And do you, O’ Prince of the Heavenly host, by the power of God thrust into Hell Satan and all the other evil spirits who prowl about the world for the ruin of souls.


Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.


Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.


qui es in caelis,
sanctificetur nomen tuum.
Adveniat regnum tuum.
Fiat voluntas tua, sicut in caelo et in terra.
Panem nostrum quotidianum da nobis hodie,
et dimitte nobis debita nostra
sicut et nos dimittimus debitoribus nostris.
Et ne nos inducas in tentationem,
sed libera nos a malo. Amen.

LewisJoan, please seek the Holy Spirit’s guidance on this matter. He will not fail you. Let God’s will be done in this matter.


Prayer to the Holy Spirit

Come, Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of your faithful.
And kindle in them the fire of your love.
Send forth your Spirit and they shall be created.
And you will renew the face of the earth.

by the light of the Holy Spirit
you have taught the hearts of your faithful.
In the same Spirit
help us to relish what is right
and always rejoice in your consolation.
We ask this through Christ our Lord.



praying for your intentions…I also am in a similar position and would appreciate your prayers as well…and YES it is GOD’s will.

***Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb,
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death


Our Father who art in heaven
Hallowed be thy name
Thy kingdom come
Thy will be done
On earth as it is in heaven
Give us this day our daily bread
And forgive us our trespasses
As we forgive those who trespass against us
Lead us not into temptation
But deliver us from evil.

Eternal God in whom mercy is endless
And treasury of compassion inexhaustible
Look kindly upon us and increase your mercy in us
So that in difficult moments we may not despair
Nor become despondent but with great confidence
Submit ourselves to Your holy will
Which is love and mercy itself.

thank you all for the prayers…they are very much appreciated and needed.

God’s loving will be done.

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