My family has really been struggling in the past year. We have faced multiple stressors including older children moving away, loss of job and income, and extreme marital stress.
I have not been perfect and blameless in all of this but my husband blames me entirely for everything that has happened and constantly complains about me to our teenage sons and drags them into our disagreements. I remain silent because if I argue with him, it only makes things worse. When I try to defend myself, he just becomes furious and says more and more terrible things about me in front of our kids so I tend to withdraw from such conversations entirely.
Consequently my teenage sons are beginning to blame me for all of our problems and even ridicule me. Our once loving family seems to fallen apart. We are all miserable. After more than 26 years of marriage, I am not sure that we will survive this.
Please pray for my family. Thank you.