A relative’s husband (they have several kids) recently told her he was moving out into an apartment he’d gotten, and then moved out even though she begged him not to. He’d apparently been preparing to do this for some time. He seemed very determined to do this and then did it. The kids have taken it hard.
He still calls her but doesn’t want to move back in and voices a lot of blame against her, lots of recrimination, complaining, etc. She’s not sure what her status with the Church is (the Catechism says divorce and separation are sins but doesn’t elaborate and the moved-out hubby is telling her she’s in a state of sin too because of his moving out - ridiculous but he’s messing with her mind while she’s in shock over this).
Any good references or sources of wisdom for her and her extended family out there? She’s not perfect but works very hard to be supportive of him and their kids and would like to save the marriage too if possible. Thanks for your prayers.