There is this guy I like and chances are good that he likes me too and we may get involved fall semester once school starts up again. When I’m at University we go to Mass at the same time each week, I’d say we are more than aquaintances but not quite friends. On the way back from a trip (to see the pope in Yankee Stadium!!) we ended up holding hands and cuddling a bit. We didn’t see each other in person very much after that but sometimes we talk online.
I’d like advice about how to approach this relationship and not mess it up. My main concern is if he wants a relationship how do I talk to him about what I want…I want courship instead of dating but how do I talk to him about this without scaring him off. I’m afraid if I say it the wrong way I’ll scare him off by demanding too much too soon because courtship is about discerning marriage and I don’t want to freak him out my mentioning marriage! lol. Also how to I develop my friendship with him while still letting him know I’m still interested in him romantically?