Ok, so I’ve been engaged for a couple months and everything started out great. I met her at a christian concert and we both had the feeling we were meant for each other from the moment we laid eyes on each other. Things were going great until a little while after I proposed. Now she is worried about some issues and I don’t know how to handle some things we face.
The main issue we face is she now tells me she doesn’t want to have children. She is in vet school (1 year left) so she is stressed out and low on time and never has had time for herself, so she thinks kids would be a big time burden. She also says she has never had a maternal instinct. The main problem is I don’t want kids now, but probably in a few years after we get married. She also said she would have kids if I want to, cuz she wanted to make me happy (but doesn’t really want them).
I guess I’m just looking for advice on how to handle this situation. Will she come to enjoy kids after she would give birth? Also what is the christian viewpoint on not having children (avoiding having them)? Thanks a bunch for any responses.