I’ve read where other folks having issues with what the CCC teaches on sex and what is/is not allowable have read these and found them helpful. My question is - are there just spiritual answers in there? Granted, they are aimed at couples understanding what the church teaches and why. Guess what I am trying to figure out is if there are other answers there.
A long while back in another thread someone mentioned these books and something called “Naked Without Shame”; one poster mentioned (paraphrased) she found out that it is OK to make love to her husband/give pleasure to her husband. I think (with a big question mark) I would have less trouble accepting what the CCC teaches if my wife were not so focused/afraid, consciously and subconsciously, of going too far in doing other things, to the point where I feel things are pretty much one sided.
Anyone else out there ever had issues physically loving their husbands - as in no real foreplay/afterplay on him, mainly just him making love to you and then intercourse - and found answers or guidance in these books that it is OK to make love to your husbands and physically make them feel good, too?