I’ll try to keep this nice. I’ve been married for 8 years and have five kids. For the entire of my married life, my interest in “the act” has been low. Now I seem to have absolutely no interest at all - it’s a chore. I might add that my youngest child is 9 months old, so I suspect there’s a bit of post-partum something there.
I feel like I’m doing my husband a disservice by being disinterested, and sort of going through the motions, or sometimes not putting in any effort at all. Hubby’s very nice about it, and we’re very close otherwise.
I wonder if anyone has any advice on how to change my attitude, to start enjoying it more and prevent us from drawing apart in this area? I’m not looking for graphic descriptions and things, of course.