Ok, so here is the dilemma:
Sue’s sister Jane’s first marriage was to a non church going Catholic. They were married in an Episcopal church with both Episcopal and Catholic priests present. Jane raises the family in the Episcopal Church. 25+ years later, Jane and first husband separate. Jane moves out of state and in with her boyfriend, Joe, a divorced church going Catholic.
Eventually Jane divorces first husband and Jane & Joe, who are living together now for a couple of years, get engaged. Although Joe would like to get remarried in the Catholic Church and looks into annulment process, Jane & Joe decided to get married in the Episcopal Church.
The couple, who are in their early 60s, both have children from their first marriages and plan to invite about 100 guest to their wedding and reception. What is the appropriate response by Sue (a Catholic) and other Catholic family members to Jane & Joe’s engagement and anticipated wedding/marriage.