Retaliating against a spouse who refuses sex

BTW–a followup to my previous post. Friday we found out that my husband has prostate cancer. He will be starting daily radiation treatments for nine weeks, plus an androgen antagonist. I pray that they caught it in time.

Given the fact that prostate cancer is usually slow growing, he’s probably had it for several months, if not a year (or more.)

I’m happy I was able to rise above feeling rejected and doing passive-aggressive retaliation for his lack of interest in sex. I’d feel pretty stupid, and pretty ashamed of myself if I had engaged in those things.

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