My husband and I are both catholic, raised in catholic homes. Our parents have been married for over 40 years. I feel very very guilty for wanting a divorce from my husband. We have been married for 6 years and have two children, ages 5 and 2. I am in a verbally abusive marriage. We have gone to several counselors and my husband usually quits because he will not take accountability for his actions. For example: He has called me a very bad name and then will say it’s my fault that he called me the name because I didn’t do what he wanted me to. The therapist finally said we should probably get divorced because he will not try to make a change or get help. I think he has severe anger issues. I go to counseling by myself and I have tried to get his parents to help but they feel it’s normal that he punches walls and screams and yells. But, it’s effecting my oldest child. He is crying when he sees my husband scream and me and says he is scared. It still doesn’t stop my husband from doing it again. We are going to retrovauille this weekend and wanted to know if anyone else has attended it and if would help? I just can’t live like this anymore especially for me kids. I feel so much guilt and failure though. Does anyone have any advice?? Please pray for us.