hi… im having a really difficult time trying to figgure out what to do with my roomate situation
im in college and I have an off campus appartment with two of my friends. I have been friends with one of them for three years and this past year she has started dating this guy… anyway things are moving really fast between them and he basically lives at our apartment now… he sleeps here every night. I know that this is wrong and he shouldnt be staying here, especially because his own house is really close… oh and he doesnt pay rent but the thing is I get along with both of them… how can i tell my friend that i dont want him to sleep here?.. is it even my place to tell her that? i know i cant force them into a chaste lifestyle (neither of them are catholic and im pretty sure they wouldnt be open to it) but i dont want that going on in our apartment.
I dont talk to my friend as much as i used to anymore but i want to tell her that he cant sleep here. i think that this will be hard and i dont really know what to say… i feel like they have gotten so used to seeing eachother every night that it will start a big argument … also i am supposed to be living with the same girls for the next two years.