I have quite an interesting case. I am entering my sophmore year of college in a few weeks and I myself struggle with same sex attraction(also I struggle with scrupulosity which may be the cause of posting this question). Last year I was at first nervous about living with guys in the dorm because I was worried about temptation and seeing guys undressed, etc. In the end it turned out fine and I actually enjoyed being able to feel like a normal guy and feel comfortable with my body by doing things like walk around without a shirt, change in front of my roommate, etc.
Last year I became friends with a guy that has a lot in common with me and we decided to be roommates this year. he’s also a devout catholic and has never mentioned anything to me about SSA but I have a strong hunch based on similarities between us and other things he does/ways he is that he may have SSA too.
So my question is would being in various states of undress around him for more than a minute be sinful? Since I’m not sure that he has SSA but since I have a good hunch would it be sinful for me to do things that I know if another guy did around me could lead me to sin? (for example if an attractive guy was walking around with his shirt off around me or something, there is a possibility of that being able to lead me into sin). Last year with my straight roommate I was able to act like a normal guy and do things like sleep in my boxers but now I worry that since I have a reasonable suspicion that my new roommate has SSA I would be sinning by doing things like that…
I know this is complicated but any thoughts?