Hi this is my response to a post on ‘frustrated about cohabitation’ - I didnt want to hijack the thread so I thought I woudl post here instead!
I am so fed up with ‘scandal’ - i dont care if my behaviour cause scandal or if anyone thinks the things I do are wrong I live my live as well as I can and I know that only HE has the right to judge me!
WE Have NO right to judge anyone the only person with that right is god last time i checked he didnt post on this forum!!!
That is my point!
Why is it that so many people believe that they do have this right - WE ARE ALL SINNERS - you are, I am we all are.
I dont expect anyone but god to judge me for mine and I dont judge you for yours. I wont be living with my h2b till marriage but that is my choice and god loves us enough to allow us to make our own choices be they good or bad - we suffer the consequences and hopefully repent.
Any form of gossip is wrong it assumes that we have a higher worth than we do and I do not care what anyone but HE thinks of me if myh2bs family want to judge me for being catholic let them their grandkids will be catholic too!!! If my friends want to judge me for not drinking let them at least my liver will survive past 40! If I gossip about my friends make sure I attend confession and repent,
But we shouldnt presume that our opinions are actually worth anything in the long run we dont know HIS plan and we can only try to live a life as close to HIM as possible!