Lately I’ve really been struggling to stay pure. I keep getting lustful scenes and thoughts popping into my head and the worst part is that I don’t always want to stop them. I keep thinking about sleeping with my boyfriend even though I know it’s not the right thing to do. I feel weird because I feel like I should be the one trying to stop my boyfriend’s advances not me thinking about seducing him! The girl is supposed to be the pure one. It makes me feel like I’m a freak or something. I always see men posting on this board about their struggle with purity but I don’t see many women saying anything.
While you are in a relationship, how do you stay chaste when you keep thinking about being intimate with your partner? Also, when you’re single, how do you stop from thinking about being with a man or fantasizing?