I really cant seem to figure out how I can comply with this request from God, at least not in this society, not in these times.
Early in adolescence you start feeling attraction to girls, if you are lucky you might meet someone.
Many other girls will come as you grow, girls that are interested in you, girls that show themselves, girls that want something with you, girls that turn you on.
From ignorance you masturbate, to then find out its a sin and its wrong. From there on you try to fight the feeling, the animal attraction to flesh, to beautiful girls and beautiful bodies. In school its almost impossible, in summer, even more. With girls that show themselves, not much can be done. With todays movie scenes even harder, with internet and advertisements even harder.
But then you grow, and understand that MOST of your feeling for girls when you were young were product of natural instinct, of uncontrolled desire. And you fall in love. You are in a relation with a girl, far away from lust.
Kiss goodbye, follows hug, follows turning on, follows no goodbye, follows bed.
Now what, you are supposed to say no? And wait to be 2 years with that girl, until she finally says yes to marriage?
I am really lost on how God made things to actually be, but I dont see myself not sinning regarding this, Sorry God.