So I’ve been working on making the changes to my life to be a stronger Christian and Catholic since coming back to the Lord this past July. Right know, knowledge is power and I cant get enough right now in terms of how to live my life pleasing God. I feel now is the time to begin really learning about sexual morality in marriage. As people may have seen from my threads before, one of my major problems was lust and masturbation. Unfortunately I’ve had sex with two girls; I’ve gone and confessed to this and am sorry for it. But with that in mind, I have some questions on sexual morality in marriage.
I know the basics. No condoms, birth control, cheating, orgy, etc. I also know that you are not supposed to masturbate or do anything that doesn’t lead to intercourse. The idea of sex is for creative purpose and to unify a couple. I know that things like masturbation and oral sex can be used as foreplay. And if a man prematurely ejaculates during this its not a sin. But here is where the questions begin. Can a man orgasm from oral sex willingly when the intention is to continue and orgasm again in a creative sense? What I mean is, can an orgasm be allowed during foreplay if it leads to a second one that is procreative?
Also, are there any resources to be found for Natural Family Planning for males? I see information all over for women, but cant seem to find any for men.