I have been seeing our parish priest for guidance and support in the wake of my husband’s affair which he revealed to me nearly 6 months ago. We are also seeing a marriage counsellor and I see an individual counsellor as well as this has totally shaken up my life leading me very near a nervous breakdown over the summer. Of all the counselling and guidance I have been receiving, I get so much more out of the time I spend with our priest. Oddly enough, my faith has grown exponentially from all of this. We give generously to our church, and I have always given a stipend for sacraments, but I haven’t been paying for this time with our priest - should I be? If so, how much? I spend about 30 mins to an hour with him every two weeks or so.