Or should I just get over it?
Several of you posted with me over the summer. My husband of almost 16 years said he didn’t love me, moved out, moved in with another woman and her two girls. We have three teens. Well he lived there for 7 weeks and came home because he knew “it was the right thing to do”. Well things have been pretty great for us. He wants to forget what happened, I can’t, at least not yet.
Here’s the problem. I leave for work every moring and who do I see, this woman’s two girls standing out waiting for the bus, at their day care… then I get to work (school) and there they are. I run into the youngest quite frequently. I don’t know if she “knows” who I am… she hasn’t said anything, but sometimes I wonder if she isn’t looking at me, “knowing” who I am. I mentioned seeing the girls at school to my husband and he said they didn’t have anything to do with the whole thing, so it shouldn’t matter… well to me it does matter because when I see them, I think of “her” and when I think of her I’m sad and mad all over again!
I’ve been in my current position for 6 1/2 years, it’s a very frustrating, thankless job. I keep at it because I get summers off to be with my kids. I just don’t know how much longer I can take it!!
Any advice, words of wisdom?