I have just found out that my husband’s cousin is pregnant. She had been engaged for a year prior to this moment. She still intends to be married in a church. At the time she’s to be married - she will be 8 months pregnant.
My question is 2 fold:
Should I go to the wedding? Reception?
Is it ok for me to keep my 7 yr old son home ?
Truth be told - I feel that going to the wedding itself would be condoning what she did – saying it was ok. I also don’t want to subject my son to this – I don’t want his first experience with marriage to set the tone for his life. I don’t want him to think this is the order in which we do things: engaged --> pregnant --> marriage.
I just don’t know if I have ground to stand on saying this. Any advice would be appreciated!