I am just wondering this because one of my better friends has a problem not just with porn, but with fetishes as well. He really feels called to marriage, but at the same time I worry about him because he doesn't really have a lot of good friendships with women though to my knowledge he's never had a girlfriend or even touched a girl.
I was reading a book though about discernment, and it talked about JPII and theology of the body and it talked about how if one struggles with these issues and isn't practicing Sexual Integration, it will be hard to discern a vocation, especially if they have things like fetishes.
So should my friend not get married? I know he doesn't have a spiritual director but is in the process of getting one, and I myself can't really tell him anything.