Hi. My husbands job may have an opportunity for us to move to a different state with nice home and good schools. We grew up in terrible crime infested areas and worked out way into renting in a nicer area. My father and mother are 90 and 80. My eldest sister lives near them and she has a good job and I know she can care for them if anything happens. (otherwise I wouldn’t even consider it)
But, my mom and dad will be sad to see me leave and although I really want to move I feel like I’m doing something wrong because I don’t know how often I’ll be able to afford a plane ticket for the entire family to visit but this is our chance to finally own an affordable home in a safe area.
I don’t want to displease God because I want to move into a new state where there is opportunity for my family to finally be in a nice home our first home and good schools. if it means abandoning (that’s what it feels like) my parents. Even though I would look for a home with a mother in law suite I think they call it, fir them.