My sister-in-law is a beautiful, intelligent, funny 20 year old. She should be in college, but she dropped out. She decided to join the military, and was sent home after 2 weeks. She can’t hold a job or keep friends. Her mom is kicking her out now.
The reason all this is happening to her is because of her relationship with the disgusting pig she calls a boyfriend. They started dating when she was 17 and he was 25. She got a full scholarship to a school in another state, but he whined and threatened to break up with her, so she dropped out and lost her scholarship. She joined the military, but ended up getting sent home because she said she was too “depressed” without him.
He cheats on her, but she forgives him, over and over.
He looks at porn all the time, and laughs at her when she says it offends her.
He constantly puts her down.
He can’t hold a job and lost his drivers licence, so she drives him everywhere.
His sister beat her up when she tried to break up with him the last time.
He is vulgar, drinks too much and I think he is on drugs.
She used to believe in God, but now she has become an atheist because that is what he is.
Everyone who loves her tells her to leave him, but she has such low self esteem. She is also a model, so there is no reason for her to feel bad about herself.
I don’t know what to do. I have been through this with her over and over. I won’t let him in our house or around our kids. I’m so scared that she will get pregnant by this guy, and that he will be part of her life forever.
I feel like cutting contact with her, because her behavior causes the family so much pain. I started dating my husband when she was 12, so it breaks my heart to see this little girl I watched grow up destroy her life for a man.
What should I do?