This is a long series of recent events, so I will try to put them succinctly and in the order they happened:
Sister leaves husband, moves in to rental puts children in Catholic school at my Moms request, my Mom pays tuition.
Sister sz teacher no good takes kids out of school.
Sister(w 3 children) moves in with boyfriend(also w 3 children). I tell sister I/m not happy she move in w boyfriend. Sister not speak to me for almost 2 years. I get report of Sister fighting w bf and his daughter. Sister also drinking from her children on occasions when I see them. Sister is arrested for domestic violence against Boyfriend.Sister gets probation with next time jail and loss of her nursing license. Boyfriend lets sister move back in but sz she must find another home. I find out from BF that Sister is drinking and has violent temper especially against BF’s daughter. Sister lives with BF 2 years. September2009,Sister kicks and breaks BF daughter’s laptop. BF comes to my husbands office asking for help. My husband tells BF throw Sister out. BF takes sister things to our mothers house, thows her out.
Moms house is very small and brother and his 3 teenage children live there already.8 days later,the pressure of 3 extra children and sister causes Mom to fall down basement and break her hip. Brother tells Sister she must leave, she refuses. Brother tries to phyically make sister leave after her drinking and verbal abuse. Sister tries to have brother arrested.
Two weeks later Sister rents brand new house in same neighborhood at 1500.00 per month when other houses rent for much less. Sister tells Mom in nursing home with broken hip and severe high blood pressue that she doesn’t have enough money to pay the rent and bills.
Sisters x-husband goes to jail.( Sisters first child has different father he is missing drug addict. No child support from either dad.) but Sister makes good money as an RN only works 2-12 hour shifts a week. Sister bought new couch and flat screem tv for rental(she had all her old furniture sofas but wanted new stuff )
Mom after 2 weeks starts to go down hill in nursing home, both mentally and phycially. Mom gives sister bank card to take money out.Sister helps herself to Moms credit card as well with a 10,000.00 credit limit. Sister files complaint against nursing home of neglect sz she wants Mom out of Nursing home and home with her. I intercede and tell NH that I find no evidence of neglect. That day I also find out that Sister’s daughter, age 13 is not in school because she has to see sibling off to school in the morning. Sister sz she plans to send daughter to cyber school because Sister doesn’t like middle school in neighborhood . Daughter 13 has learning disabilities and has not been in school now 8 weeks in session. Sister sz she needs grandmom to move in w her to take care of her children. Mom has serious recovery problems. I tell Sister no way is Mom going home with her. I ask sister for medical, bank and credit card she took. She throws Moms wallet to floor (the cards not in there) and storms out of nursing home. Mom goes to hospital for further evaluation. I report Moms credit card stolen. Sister still has bank card.
That brings it up to date but what next? Try to get Mom to give me power of attorney? Call child protective services? file a restaining order against my sister? What do I do? Will my sisters children be taken away if I do anything?I have tried to help them but they are so far gone, the 7 year old still is in diapers The 13 year old is into Satan worship and sz she has homsexual friends who are having sex. She is very depressed… Or will they help her get help?
Years ago Sister put Mom into bankruptcy by using her credit card to buy things and pay my sister debts. She did drugs with her first child’s father.
My sister successfully destoyed her x husbands career and helped to get him put in jail. She did many illegal and immoral things in that marriage. She tried to purchase a gun during the divorce. . I am terrifed of what she will do to me and my family if I cross her and I know she will know it is me if i call Child protective…