As you all know, in November of 2007 I received my Decree of Nullity, which I thank God for:bowdown2: :gopray2:!!! I had decided that if I received the decree I was going to put my profile up on Ave Maria Singles and on Catholic Match.
It took me awhile to work up the courage to do it, then, finally, in February of this year I did it:clapping: . I’ve corresponded with a few gentlemen and now there’s one in particular that I’m corresponding exclusively with. We’ve been corresponding, first by email and now phone calls, since early April. He wants to meet me now:eek:, needless to say I’m very nervous.
Here’s my dilemma, the sites recommend that when meeting and getting to know the people you correspond with you should be surrounded by people you know…friends, family, etc. This way the person can see who you really are and how you interact with these people and vice versa. In my case I’m 3000 miles from my family and closest friends, so being around the people that could give him insight into who I am would be very difficult.
Now, if I visited him I don’t think that would be a problem since his family lives near him. Also, what, if anything, would I do about my ds? Would it be appropriate just to introduce him to ds and everything else we do would not include ds? Since he lives in DC I doubt that we would see each other very often, so would it be that big a deal if ds met him?
If it were to work out then I would make a trip to Cali and ask him to meet me there so that he could hang out with me while I’m amongst my friends and family.
What do you all think? Any comments, suggestions, advice, etc., are greatly appreciated:D.