I am so irritated with my sister:mad:!!! She is starting to consider getting back together with my nephew’s father:rolleyes:.
Just a couple of weeks ago, before my nephew got sick, just looking at him made her sick, hearing is voice on the phone irritated her to no end:shrug:, I don’t get it. How do you go from extremely disliking someone to considering marriage:confused:, all within two weeks:banghead:???
She was dating someone and he talked about marriage, he went off to work on his masters degree (out of the country) then, not long after, he told her he wasn’t sure what he wanted for sure and they broke up. I was mad cause he shouldn’t have started a relationship with her in the first place considering he was going to be out of the country for about 3 years. I told her that, she agreed with me, but he insisted so much that she finally opened up and then he pulls this crud.
Well right after he broke up with her Eric gets sick and her and Eric’s father are stuck at the hip with hospitalizations, doctor’s appointments, etc. Of course, the whole time he’s trying to convince her to get back together with him. He told her that he would do anything she wanted except change the way he practices his faith, leave his daughter and something else I can’t remember. All of the sudden he’s a new man:rolleyes:, whatever!!!
He is not Catholic, in fact he is very anti-Catholic:eek:, oh, but he would consider getting married in the Catholic church if that’s what she wants…what a guy! He is divorced, he was married in his church, some kind of protestant, for 12 years. My sister got pregnant by him while he still legally married, and of course we all know that he is still married in the eyes of God.
My sister’s all giddy and spending a lot of extra time with him, etc. She seems to think it is a sign that Eric got sick when the other guy broke up with her and she was forced to spend so much time with Eric’s father:shrug:. I told her it might be a test to see if she can stay true to the Church’s teachings and to herself. I don’t understand why she can’t see that he’ll say anything to get back together with her and when that happens that’s it, he’ll go back to the same way he’s always been. I also told her that it was obvious that he had no issues with putting God before her and I couldn’t understand why she couldn’t do the same.
She’s just a weak person, until now I didn’t realize how little self-esteem, self-worth and diginity she had. I’m tired though, if I say anything negative about him or point out something she doesn’t want to hear she’s having a big fat cow. She told me it was none of my business and I replied “you’re right, it’s none of my business until you want to talk ht about him, but if I make a comment you don’t like then it’s none of my business” I’m sick of trying to save her from herself.
She knows what’s right and what’s wrong, I’ve told her the teachings of God about marriage. If she wants to ignore it then it’s on her. She wants to work things out with someone she shouldn’t have been messing around with in the first place, it’s just so frustrating that she doesn’t get that, it seems so simple.
Thanks for letting me vent and sorry for the rant, any opinions, comments or advice would be appreciated.