I have yet another question about my marriage to be and this time it deals with NFP. I have a VERY irregular period. I get it maybe once every 3-6 months. recently it’s been more of 3 months. That’s probably why i’ve tried to avoid thinking about NPF b/c i have the notion inside my head that it would never work with my cycle being completely unpredictable. I talked to my doctor about regulating my cycle and she said it would probably not regulate until after I’ve had my first child…but i don’t want to wait til then she also said that i should try birth control, but the side effects like infertility over long periods of time and increased heart risks (my family has a history of heart disease) has me worried so i declined.
I guess what i’m asking is, is NFP even an option for me? and now that i looked a little deeper into it, I see the different methods, but i don’t know if any of them would be of any help.
And of the different methods, if possible, what would you say was the average of infertile days per month? b/c i KNOW my fiance and he’s already having enough trouble as it is abstaining for marriage hahah