I have seen this reality from a few different angles over the years…i/e:
Both working…no kids
Both working…kids in dayccare
Both working…kids in school but home alone in the afternoons
Husband working…kids and wife home all day
Husband working…wife home but kids in daycare
Wife working…husband and kids home all day
Wife working during the day…husband working overnights…kids have a parent all day
How does it work in your house?
Is it ideal for your family?
Are you working towards some different arrangement?
What are the benefits and drawbacks to your current arrangement?
Does a different arrangement invoke fear in either spouse?