I have entered into a change in my life. Recently my girlfriend of 2 years (in addition to one year courting and being friends) has decided to call it quits. Saying that she can not show affection for me that matches my affection for her. I am trying to get advice on steps to take after. Seeing to we attend the same church and are both on as EM’s.
Before we started seeing each other I was getting close to a young lady who expressed much affection for me. I acted in ways that I should have not and said things that were seen as meaning something different than what I had meant them to mean. I messed up because had I said yes to her and the love she was willing to show me, I do not think I would be in the spot I am in now. I understand that it might be seen as “rebounding”, but i am not looking for an easy time if it makes sense, I just feel like I let something that was suppose to be go, and am trying to follow the will of God.
I do not want to be a lone, and I know I have the the LORD but I can not shake the feeling that two people came into my life around the same time for a reason.