Ok so my wife and I have 3 children and one on the way and my wife says she is done using NFP and is going to use some form of contraception. So NFP is out of the picture and abstinence for the next 10-15 years isn’t going to happen. So my wife is going to use some form of ABC and not much I can do to stop it. :shrug:
If she gets sterilized and then goes to confession the next day she will be in the state of mortal sin for a day, but if she uses some other method she will be in the state of mortal sin for 10-15 years. I don’t really know the numbers, but It seems the probability of God smiting her while she is in the state of mortal sin is significantly less if she gets sterilized. follow?
Birth control is wrong, but is it wrong to encourage someone to choose the least wrong method of birth control?