I’m sorry if this sounds like I’m rambling or venting, I have a problem right now and I don’t know how to talk to anyone about any of this. Well, I’m 18 years old. I’m about to move far away in about 3 months. One of my close friends from high school had been dating this guy throughout high school. I have not had good feelings about this guy since I met him, and neither has some of my other friends in my group. He was pretty much a downright rude person. I remember one time we were going to the homecoming dance, and I needed a ride, and my girl friend was like “Hey come with us!” and he just goes WHYYYYYYYY??? UGGHHHHHH!!!. Also, we were in the bleaches in the gym at an assembly one time and he pushed me out of my seat to sit next to his girlfriend. Today he sent me a very insulting message on Facebook, saying that I am a self-concieted brat and that I should enjoy my one way ticket to heaven because I just make everyone feel terrible. Well, long story short, this guy and my close friend are engaged. They are getting married after they graduate from college. I want to be happy for my friend, but I’m not. I’m worried about her. She is in love with the guy, and I am just scared that he will hurt her. She seems completely oblivious to what he does. I am not a regular part of these people’s lives. I have not even talked to the girl in a long time or have even seen her since last summer, but we were super close in high school. I’m extremely worried and upset, but I do not know if it is my place to say or do anything. I don’t even know how to talk to the girl because I’m getting the impression that she won’t be my friend anymore if I tell her that I do not approve of the boyfriend. I’m seriously considering just moving away in 3 months and not worrying about them, but I feel that would be unchartiable of me. I also feel like I would be hurting my friend if I don’t go to the wedding, but I feel like I cannot see her marry him. I do not want to be a part of this, but i feel like I have to.
Sorry. Anything is appreciated. I’m really upset, worried, and confused right now
Thanks! God bless!