so a while ago, i posted about an invatation to a wedding of a nonchristian teammate who is getting remarried.
now before you answer this. please know that i am not trying to bbe argumentative, uncharitable or anything of the sort. i am sincerely trying to understand what to do to be right with God in this matter. i have prayed and prayed and i’m still stuck.
many people, have just told me to go and not worry about it and that i am not sinning. i want to know why that is? how am i not sinning if i participate in something that is a sin against God? what if i had asked about a homosexual wedding or an abortion that someone wanted me to accompany them? i bet the answers would have been very different. what’s the difference with something like this?
and also, this has nothing to do with a sacramental wedding. it has to do with the validity of the wedding. remarriage is adultery, according to Jesus, whether you’re christian or not. sure, we don’t actually know if the wedding is valid without doing a full investigation, but shouldn’t we be on the safe side instead of not?
and people tell me to use my prudential judgment, which i don’t really even understands what that means and honestly, i don’t trust my judgment very much. i have a tendency to be able to find ways out of things. please, i hope you understand that i just don’t want to do anything to upset God.