The thing is, in a weird way, I kinda would want people to tell me that I’ve wronged them. Having experienced the alternative too much, I hate that awkwardness of knowing something is wrong without it ever being verbalized. I would love if people told me something I did wrong so I could work on it. Them telling me might cause an argument initially but to me that’s better than letting things fester and ruin the relationship altogether.
And there are certain people who have wronged me that I can only avoid for so long (maybe a week or so). Those are the ones who bother me the most. There are some who have wronged me that I can easily get away from, and those ones I find easier to deal with to be honest, but it’s not that easy with others. And I can’t drive either by the way, which makes it difficult to stay away from certain people for too long.
Also, to give a little more context, since you brought up doing nice things for them… the whole issue I have with one of the people is that I helped them clean up their workplace after they had a fire. And they completely treated me like crap afterward. So yes, it would be nice to do something nice for them, but… that’s kinda what got me in this mess in the first place.
And yes, I do know the chaplet of divine mercy.