Well as much as women pretend not to be shallow… … per a few women:
Women: “Wow you are lucky I like you ;)”
Me: “huh? I do it all the time with positive effects”
Women: “I gues because you’re good looking it works”
Again having 12 seconds of words to say helps above and beyond looks…
I have actually had this convo with women who deny it and say I am horrible… in a few conversations I am good to go… lol. (Remembering I spent alot of time as a completely secular dude)
You can pretend what you want though. You can pretend it isn’t a bologna game in which women pick and choose.
At work we have some guys who can all but comoletely sexually harass women and THEY are FINE WITH IT.
There are other guys who do literally NOTHING wrong and get accused of harassment…
And the women who are not operating out of denial will freely admit to safe confidant “Yeah I complained because ewww he is ugly”
Or “ew I don’t like his demographic”
Ironically we have one very fit guy of a demographic that even the women who dislike said demographic let him get away with murder.
Because they call him:
“[Name] with the big arms” (said in swwoning teenage voice)
And this all comes from women 23-55 married/single… 99% all act the exact same way.