A lot of recent threads basically ask the same thing over and over again hoping that the Catholic Church and her members will change and conform to the whims of this world instead of realizing that we are all sinners, and all of us need to change and conform ourselves to the Church and to Christ. I think 2,000 years should have been enough time for everyone to realize that the Catholic Church won’t budge an inch in her teachings on faith and morals. Who was it that said that the definition of insanity is when people repeat the same thing over and over expecting a different result? Anyway, there’s no reason anyone should be proud of their sins since pride is the sin of the Devil and the sin of the wicked angels who rejected God and merited eternity in Hell. So the short answer to a thousand ways to reword the same question regarding tolerance for sinful behavior is we need to love the sinner but hate the sin.