I am a 29yrs boy, i met a lady i want to marry , then my parents said they dont agree to it. their reasons kept on changing :
The lady does not attend the same church as we do.
I challenged this and they moved to ,
That, she has been married before and her husband died at an early age and she has 2 kids
I challenged this too, saying it was just an unfortunate incident an death can happen to anyone, i have sister and they can suffer a similar faith.
Now they say She has pierce her ears twice so she is not a girl and that she has a bad spirit.
I have prayed and done everything these people are not willing to change their mind. even when i have also have a 3 months old baby with her. i will not like my child to grow up away from me. I want to go ahead and perform the marriage without them agreeing because i need to make my ways right with God.