The Society of St. John Cantius
The Institute of Christ the King, Sovereign Priest
The Priestly Fraternity of St. Peter
Take responsibility for your own soul. Some traditional priests- even ones that are in communion with Rome- can be a bit extreme. If penances are too wierd, or are physically harmful, don’t do them- ask another priest for another one. If the priest does nothing but talk about modesty and has a fit when a woman’s wrist is showing, I would only go to them if I were about to die. If the attitude of the community tends to be more “look at me- look how holy I am” rather than an atmosphere of humility, reverence, Christian charity, and piety, then you are in the wrong place.
On a side note…please consider putting the letters you have at the end of your post. When you hold your mouse over an unopened thread, it shows the first few lines of the post. That is helpful to those of us with slow internet connections- but if that space is taken up by a link or by a bunch of letters (though the idea of the prayers is good) it doesn’t help much.