Dude I can’t go out in public.
At 30 you go through like a second puberty.
I don’t generally have impure thoughts but it’s hard not noticing most women these days plus when your married and have kids women you would never be tempted by as a teenager become common ground.
Some days it’s frumpy soccer mom’s other days it’s 20 year old grocery baggers and it probably stems from the fact I’m not desensitized any longer.
I generally don’t watch TV, see a lot of movies, have Facebook, Twitter, I don’t watch music videos and fashion-related stuff.
So being a married man my priest would say get used to looking at your shoelaces.
Plus at 30 hair grows in weird places and I mean weird not inappropriate.