I have a sister who seems to be falling… hard.
She’s recently left for college and is going wild. Rumor has it (through her friends), that she’s having lots of sex with lots of different guys… and really enjoys drinking.
God I’m devistated. I love her to death.
We were NOT raised that way. My parents are clueless.
She’s very shy and does not talk about her personal life.
I fear, if I approach her directly on the subject she’ll never talk to me again.
I KNOW she has major self image issues, and my belief is that she’s getting reassurance about her image from these guys through the sex. She’s never had a long term boyfriend (that she’s ever mentioned… remember, she doesn’t TALK about her personal life with anyone in the family!)… but she’s risking her entire future! Marriage, children, etc, etc…
She’s NOT on birth control (which I disagree with anyway… completely!)… heck, she’s never even seen an ob/gyn doctor yet (her first visit is scheduled this fall)…
Oh God, what do I do? Do I approach her and risk loosing my entire relationship with her?
Prayers are of course appreciated…