I have a question about infertility and what the Catholic church teaches. i am a mother of 2 and a good friend of mine has been married one year and hasn’t been able to achieve pregnany. her blood was tested and the doc said she looked great and it was time to check her husband. but, how can a mans sperm count (or whatever they check) be checked without him sinning. does this make sense? her husband said that he wouldn’t do that and she is like “that is okay if you aren’t comfortable doing that” but isn’t it wrong anyway? what means can they go to to see where the “problem” lies without stepping out of the bounds of the catholic church?
also, i have another acquaintance that i recently heard from who had ivf and had a baby. if she doesn’t know it was wrong, no sin has been committed right? but how do i tell her so that it isn’t repeated again, without her thinking that i am judging her or saying that her son wasn’t conceived the right way?