I have been incredibly depressed following the dissolution of my 3-year relationship with my high school sweetheart. I have been numb and devoid of so many normal thoughts and feelings. I blamed all of this on her leaving for another guy and how she treated me, left me by the wayside. Since then I have been leading a life not very Christian-like.
But today for the first time I saw a picture of her and the new guy. She looked so happy. At that moment I realized that I do love her, maybe not in the way I did, but I do love her. And because I do feel that way I want her to have the happiest and best life possible. Even if it is not with me, it’s okay. God has a plan for me, as well as every person on the planet. But true love is wanting what is best for someone. Even though you think that you’re going to lose love for someone, eventually you realize that love remains and that is what truly heals your heart and will let you love again.
all the best,