I’m 26 and have been married to my wife for about 4 years. I love her very much but for the last two years I have not been entirely faithful to her. I’ve been engaging in adult internet activity with other people (which I have managed not to go back to for a couple of months now).
Both of us are lapsed but I don’t think that there is anyway for me to return even though at the moment I would like to give it a go.
My first problem is that if I go to confession the priest will tellme that as penance I have to tell my wife about my internet indiscretions. There is absolutely no way that I can do this. Telling her won’t make anything better and may possilbe ruinn my marriage.
My second problem (assuming that I can overcome my first hurdle some how) is that I don’t think tthat my wife would be the slightest bit interested in returning.
Please don’t judge me!