I have been invited to witness my friend’s son’s upcoming March baptism. Last week, my friend hosted a dinner and invited the witnesses, the priest, and the 2 female godparents.
I was surprised that same sex godparents were allowed. The priest said that most parishes do not allow this, but his does.
Since then, I have spoken to my parish’s priest who says that this is not allowed. Also the code of canon law (873) does not allow it. I called the first priest to discuss this, but he only said that his Church allows this.
What should I do next? Should I even witness the baptism? Will the baptism be valid?