Hi, I’m new here, so I hope you can help. My husband is a non- practicing, non-catechized Catholic (meaning, he was baptized but not raised Catholic – and he’s 55, by the way). He hasn’t been to mass with me in years. Luckily I realized that arguing about it wasn’t helping matters, so I am trying to talk to him more about his reasoning about this. One comment he had was about how “unfriendly” us Catholics are (he’s been to some Baptist and Presbyterian services in the past). I explained that mass is more of a time to focus of Christ and not as much about fellowship like in other churches, but that didn’t seem to help matters very much. He’s really not that interested in the whole “God-thing” (maybe it’s his genes – ha, ha, ha). I plan to buy a copy of Patrick Madrid’s *Search and Rescue. *Any other suggestions?