*First, I pray that you all had a very Merry and Blessed Christmas!!! Now to this urgent plea.
Please continue to pray for my son and I, there is a hearing that I must be present for which is scheduled for Dec 30th at 11:30am. This hearing is supposed to determine temporary support and visitation/custody. My husband is asking for week long visits of a child that he has never spent more than 2-3 hours at a time with, he also has never been alone with our son. This man wants to have our little boy live in the house of the woman that broke up our marriage, our family!!!
What he’s asking for is completely outrageous and unreasonable and is obviously his way of getting back at me for “taking what’s his”! I’m so afraid for my little boy, if the judge allows this my son will be utterly traumatized! First, because he’s never been away from me and has never slept anywhere without me. Secondly, because I know his father will NOT take care of him 24hrs a day, he’ll leave it to someone else to do. The someone else is the mistress he’s living with, the same one that broke up my little boy’s family to begin with. I highly doubt that she will treat my son well or be good to him.
Please, please pray that the judge will see right through this and see it as the hateful, vindictive, selfish move/request that it is. He has other children that he has NEVER had custody of or even asked for custody of, this is all about getting back at me and he doesn’t care how this will affect our son. If the judge grants his request my little boy will be fundamentally changed forever, he will be emotionally and mentally scarred. The little boy I have now will cease to exist!
I know this may sound dramatic, but it’s not. Taking a child from a stable environment and making it unstable is NEVER good and I know my child will suffer tremendously if this happens. This is a man that has 3 DUI convictions, who goes on drinking binges and disappears for days at a time, who drives drunk all the time, has a different woman for the day of the week, what if he does this when he has our son?
All I know to do is pray and pray, that our Lord’s mercy and our Lady’s mantle protect my little boy and that they not permit this to happen. Please join me in this petition, it’s urgent, thank you!*